The empty places in life that were filled by a dear loved one mean that recreating the same life without that person won't work. Life looks like a piece of swiss cheese full of holes.
Opening to new experiences, a willingness to try things you've never done before, helps bring good things out of the pain of loss.
Opening to new experiences, a willingness to try things you've never done before, helps bring good things out of the pain of loss.
Thinking of the inter-connectedness of all things, and of joining up again with the community of living things, is part of recovery from bereavement.
Bereavement seems to be a solo journey of a seeker. No one can replace the unique essence of the person who is gone, and what the person meant to you.
I could see I would need to be braver and venture out where I hadn't been before after I lost my husband. Now, after losing a dearly loved companion, Bill, again I can see I need to go out into the unknown.
The old activities without Bill would be just that - without Bill. So it's time to redesign the old lifestyle. Exploring the unknown, and living with some uncertainty, means life will go down a new road.
Bereavement seems to be a solo journey of a seeker. No one can replace the unique essence of the person who is gone, and what the person meant to you.
I could see I would need to be braver and venture out where I hadn't been before after I lost my husband. Now, after losing a dearly loved companion, Bill, again I can see I need to go out into the unknown.
The old activities without Bill would be just that - without Bill. So it's time to redesign the old lifestyle. Exploring the unknown, and living with some uncertainty, means life will go down a new road.
My mantra could be "stay open to change."
1 comment:
I really love what you have written here. There is so much truth to your insite. Thank you! your cousin, Sandy :)
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